Faith · Marriage · Legacy

Where every
generation
has a seat.

A multigenerational faith community for marriage, family, and legacy — from year one to decade five, all rooted in the same conviction.

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~90

Combined years
of marriage

Generations
at the table

Nations
reached

Ebi and Mina Komonibo — 40+ years of abiding love

"Strong marriages do not happen by accident. They are built — intentionally, faithfully, and together."

— Ebi & Mina Komonibo, Abiding Love

Our Mission

Rooted in faith.
Reaching across
generations.

The Abiding Table grew out of Abiding Love — a book of 40 timeless lessons from 40+ years of marriage — and has expanded into a platform that brings together counselors, storytellers, coaches, worship leaders, and mentors.

We are not a content platform. We are a community. And there is room for you here — whatever season of marriage or family you are in.

40+

Years of Wisdom

Founded on four decades of lived, faith-tested covenant — structured into lessons anyone can use.

Active Platforms

YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Podcast, and a growing live events arm.

US · NG · UK

Nations Reached

Built for the African diaspora — and for every couple who believes marriage is worth fighting for.

The Table

Three generations.
One conviction.

Every person here was already doing a piece of something larger — without knowing the other pieces existed, or that they fit together so precisely. From the first year of marriage to the forty-fifth, the full arc of the journey is at this table.

The Elders

40+

The Founders

New

The Beginning

The full journey of marriage — year one to year forty-five — in one room.

Counselors · Seminar Leaders · Elders

Barine & Bunmi Gbosi

45 Years Married · Marriage Counselors & Seminar Leaders

Seasoned counselors with decades of experience guiding couples through every season of life. Their authority, wisdom, and pastoral depth give The Abiding Table its credibility and its elder voice.

40+

Founders · Authors · Visionaries

Ebi & Mina Komonibo

40+ Years Married · Houston, TX · Authors of Abiding Love

Retired engineer and nurse, authors of the Abiding Love series, and the vision behind everything this platform is becoming. Four decades of lived covenant structured into lessons the next generation can use.

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Moderator · Coach · Worship Leader · Bridge

Timi Komo Irby

Newly Married · Houston, TX & Beyond

Worship leader, author, coach (The Pivot Strategists), and the platform's generational bridge. Newly married herself, Timi brings the questions a younger generation is actually carrying — and the gift to ask them in a way that opens hearts rather than closes them.

Also at the table

Tyrell Irby

Ministry Leader · Men's Mentor

A worship leader and ministry host who mentors young men toward becoming faithful husbands and fathers. Joins selected conversations where the newly married and young men's perspectives matter most.

Diseye & Osah Omoike

Storytellers · Community Builders · Men's Mentor

Faith-rooted fiction authors, podcast hosts (C4 — Commemorative Christ-Centered Colloquy), and community builders. Osah mentors young men in his church and community. Together they carry the upstream voice — forming values and faith before marriage begins.

Content

The conversation
is already happening.
Pull up a chair.

Our content spans the full arc of family formation — from single young adults finding their footing all the way to couples in their fifth decade. Every voice has a lane. Every season has a home.

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Three Couples, One Table

All three couples in honest, unscripted conversation. Timi moderates. From newlywed to 45 years — the full range of marriage in one room.

Abiding Love Book Club

Chapter-by-chapter conversations on the 40 timeless lessons — with each generation engaging the same material from a different vantage point.

For the Men

Tyrell and Osah on what it means to show up — as husbands, fathers, and men of faith. Built from their active mentorship work with young men.

Before the Ring

Diseye, Osah, and Timi speak to singles and young adults — forming the values and faith that will shape the families they build tomorrow.

Live Events & Gatherings

The intimate couples' evenings, seminars, and retreats where The Abiding Table community gathers in the same room. The table made real.

Community

Find us where
you already are.

Every platform is a different seat at the same table. Find us where you are most comfortable — and pull up a chair.

Where every
generation
has a seat.

Rooted in faith.
Reaching across
generations.

See what The Abiding Table
is all about.

Three generations.
One conviction.

This is what abiding love looks like.

The conversation
is already happening.
Pull up a chair.

40 lessons.
40+ years.
One legacy.

40 days of marriage wisdom — in your Bible App.

Find us where
you already are.

Where everygenerationhas a seat.

Rooted in faith.Reaching acrossgenerations.

See what The Abiding Tableis all about.

Three generations.One conviction.

This is what abiding love looks like.

The conversationis already happening.Pull up a chair.

40 lessons.40+ years.One legacy.

40 days of marriage wisdom — in your Bible App.

Find us whereyou already are.

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Where every
generation
has a seat.

Rooted in faith.
Reaching across
generations.

See what The Abiding Table
is all about.

Three generations.
One conviction.

The conversation
is already happening.
Pull up a chair.

40 lessons.
40+ years.
One legacy.

Find us where
you already are.